Lasting love with a suitor you picked on a reality show just never seem to pan out – The Bachelorette’s DeAnna Pappas and her fiance, Jesse Csincsak, have broken up and (naturally) called off their engagement.

Looks like there’s no wedding bells in the future for DeAnna Pappas and Jesse Csincsak.

DeAnna Pappas commented on the break up, saying, “I really felt like I was going to spend the rest of my life with him. I thought he was my fairy-tale ending. But after the show was over and we settled in to our normal lives, I slowly came to realize that we are two totally different people and it wasn’t going to work out.”

What about that engagement ring? DeAnna Pappas will donate the ring to charity.